A Note from Vanessa

Hey there gorgeous,

I just wanted to pop in here and let you know that, yes, I am a real person and that, yes, I definitely get how hard it can be.

Hard to show up.

Hard to be seen.

And, more often than we’d like admit, hard to haul ourselves out of bed in the morning to face another day that feels bleak and boring and… and… well, that if we’re *really* honest with ourselves – and we can be here because it’s just you and me – that sometimes we lay in bed and wonder if it’s all actually worth it…

… or if maybe we’ve made a huge mistake somewhere along the way because surely it isn’t supposed to feel this hard.

Trust me, I get it. I’ve done the journey to hell and back. I’ve been there.

And a big part of the work that I do is making sure you know that it’s okay to feel like that sometimes. That it’s actually part of life to not always be excited about our lives. And that we live in a toxic, fucking hyper-masculine, misogynist, patriarchal culture that, while crumbling, has encultured us to feel small, wrong, bad, and broken about pretty much everything that is us.

Even ‘positive thinking’ and the Law of Attraction get twisted around so hard that we feel like we’re failing at the good stuff that’s supposed to help us get what we want, right? More shame? Perfect! Just what we need.

I used to think it was all about creating a life you love but as I’ve done more and more of this work, I’ve learned that it’s really all about learning to love the life you create.

We can work hard and build and create and most of us are actually really good at doing all of that. We’re good girls. Great students. Smart. Capable. And we’ve learned to push ourselves way past what’s healthy and comfortable to perform at the level we’ve come to believe is necessary just to be *good enough*.

Except now we’ve learned that even when we push as hard as we can and do as much as we can, it’s still never good enough. Even when we get everything that we’ve asked for, it’s still not enough.

We’re still not happy.

We’re still not healthy.

And we never feel like we have enough.

Even if, on paper, we’re millionaires… oh yeah, it’s true.

The truth?

(I’ll always tell you the truth, by the way, that’s my promise to you. I won’t stuff you full of unicorn sprinkles and pretend that it’s always blue skies. That kind of gaslighting doesn’t do anybody any good.)

The truth is…

Our trauma gets in the way.

The truth is that our programming, our literal epigenetic DNA expression, right down there at the molecular level, our coding is flawed. It’s based on trauma patterns passed down through generations of mis-aligned, patriarchal, skewed beliefs and values.

I believe it’s time to choose a new operating system. To re-program what’s keeping us stuck (our Patriarchy OS, or P-OS) so that we can actually enjoy our lives.

I call in Radiant-OS and it’s the soul work of my life.

Because the Truth is that I see you. I see your Soul. I see your potentiality and dreams and the Future You that is calling out to you, inviting you into your Destiny and way to live life differently. The Truth is that, you’re absolutely right, it’s not supposed to be this hard.

And the very good news is that it doesn’t have to be this hard. Not anymore.

If you’re ready to live life differently, to feel flow and fun and stop the desperate never-ending struggle to be ‘good enough’, you’re in the right place.

Check out a product in The Shops that calls to you, dive into our 1-1 Soul Experiences or use the Contact form to let me know what’s on your mind and what your heart is calling for… I’ll steer you in the right direction. You can also DM me on IG if you have questions.

It’s my privilege to serve and my passionate purpose to re-balance the Divine Feminine.

It’s good to see you.

Love,

Vanessa